The last thing he said to me, "Fine. I'm going to bed." A heavy sigh slips through my tense pursed lips. The tall offended teenager lumbers down the hall in a huff. Angry words are the last I hear and his heart believes my last words to him tonight were critical and harsh. Seems like words fly around loose unbound by civility or respect. I won't claim my words weren't stern; I was trying to press a point. Though I still believe the intent of my heart was legitimate; I am sad that these last words before sleep caused angst and tension. Parenting is such an uphill climb sometimes. Pursuing the offended would I know from experience, only exacerbate the problem. Because this is the youngest of five sons I know that these last words will be redeemed and tonight is not the end....Jesus, Alpha and Omega, beginning and the end...the First and the Last; remain in my home and continue your work. Help us all to guard our hearts and tongues so that last words will more often be good words.
Been there, done that. Parenting is an uphill climb ... but you know these times aren't the end, but part of a glorious trail with Jesus, Alpha and Omega, Beginning and End, First and Last as our tour guide. Blessings.
ReplyDeleteThanks Joe. It is compforting to know as a parent we are not alone. Other parents and God Himself are always near to offer encouragement, support, and a laugh or two. God bless your adventure..
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